The baby and toddler phase is not necessarily the happiest time in life. Satisfaction with life and one's relationship can deteriorate for most new mothers. However, those who are satisfied with their relationship during pregnancy are most satisfied three years later.
This comes from a recent study from the Norwegian Institute of Public Health. The study includes 60,000 Norwegian women with small children.
"In this study we have investigated two types of satisfaction -- satisfaction with the partner and general satisfaction with life -- both during pregnancy and later in infancy and toddlerhood," says researcher Ragnhild Bang Nes.
"Long term, satisfaction with the relationship affects satisfaction with life to a greater degree than vice versa," said Bang Nes, who also stressed that the results suggest that the link between relationship satisfaction and overall satisfaction changes over time.
Compared with many other groups that have been studied previously, it seems that Norwegian women are relatively happy in this period of life.
"It is possible that the good welfare system in Norway contributes to ease the challenges during this phase. However, this has not been specifically studied here," said Bang Nes.
"Most adults want to have children. Children are seen as a blessing, an enrichment and a central source of meaning, love and belonging. One would therefore expect that having a child meets both the desire and satisfies a fundamental need, which in turn creates happiness and satisfaction. However, studies show that this is not always the case. This is often called the 'paradox of parental life'" explains Bang Nes.
The study is based on a large number of women participating in the Norwegian Mother and Child Cohort Study (MoBa). MoBa is a unique longitudinal study that recruited more than 100,000 pregnant women in the years 1999-2008. Over 60,000 pregnant women completed the questionnaires that form the basis for this study. Women completed questionnaires twice during pregnancy (week 19 and week 30), and then when the child was both 6 months and 3 years old.
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